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Don’t fall in love

Don’t fall in love because then you’ll have to stare at your phone to see if he texted you. And when he does, you won’t write back immediately, just in case it’s so obvious that you like him. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because then you’ll have to think what to wear. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll have to use make-up to hide that you’re tired, that you cried, that your life isn’t great, and that everything is bullshit. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll have to control yourself and hold in your gas. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll stop making plans with your friends so that you can hang out with him. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll spend a lot of money on his birthday and Christmas presents. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll be so stupid that you’ll get married. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because maybe you’ll have kids, and your body and life will experience a total roller coaster that never felt before. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll give it all to that person, even if it’s not reciprocal. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll argue about nothing, and you’ll go to bed in a bad mood and he’ll be already snoring. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because you’ll wake up in the middle of the night to deal with your children’s fears, and will be sure to not interrupt his sleep. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because he’ll go to work and you’ll stay home 24/7, while he’s cheating on you with a coworker. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because he’ll say you’re crazy when you catch all of those inappropiate texts in his cell phone. Don’t fall in love.

Don’t fall in love because when love is gone, it hurts. Don’t fall in love.

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I would suggest you to not fall in love just in case this happens to you, too. But I won’t. I read something the other day that I wrote on my “happy thoughts in difficult times” notebook:

“No risk, no glory.
There’s no risk for those that stay home on a Saturday night. 
For those that cancel a date because they’re afraid of what it will be like. 
For those that don’t start something becuase they’re afraid of how things will end. 
Those that protect their heart and they won’t jump in the pool just in case it’s empty. 
Because taking a risk might make you lose and suffer. 
But it’s also the only way to go through the ice, fly and touch the sky. 
Because those that don’t take risks, don’t live, don’t win, don’t love.”

So…

Do fall in love and text him whenever you want. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and wear whatever you want, because even in your PJs, you’ll still be beautiful to his eyes Fall in love.

Do fall in love and be natural, everybody has bad days and that person will be there for you to share your feelings. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and act the same way as if he wasn’t watching. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and never stop seeing your friends. It’s ok to miss each other now and then. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and give each other presents, no matter what day it is. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and get married, why not. And sleep together for the rest of your lives. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and have children, if you want to, and admire, support and respect each other every change of the experience. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and give it all for him. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and argue with respect, with the goal of making things better. It’s just human. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and take turns to wake up in the middle of the night to put your children back down. You’re both tired, but they need you both. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and work hard inside and outside of home, for your family. Fall in love.

Do fall in love and you’ll trust him blindly, because you won’t have a reason not to, that’s how strong love is. Fall in love.

Do fall in love because together you can do anything. Fall in love.

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Not everybody is the same and not everyone is “made for each other”. But love is a strong feeling that can be beautiful if you take care of it. And if you really do love that person, there won’t be obstacles to break that love. There will certainly be difficult and less difficult moments, sure. But please, do no be afraid of love (or afraid of loving again). Fall in love. Love doesn’t make sense, but it’s a weird and awesome feeling all at once, and we all have a lot of love to share. So go ahead. We won’t be in this world forever and life will be so sad if we didn’t love.

“Love is a power which produces love” -Erich Fromm in The art of loving.

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